I have some professional colleagues, family members, friends and neighbours who are so busy with their jobs and businesses that they forget that they need to make an impact in the society. When I talk about my involvement in community development services, they ask if I am still doing NYSC. I am often internally disappointed at their responses because I expect them to know better. Sadly, a lot of people are this way- they don’t care about making an impact.
To be too engrossed in a job, business, religious activity or any other thing that it doesn’t give you consideration for impacting on your society is sheer lack of understanding. We should be able to give back to the society that accommodates us. A lot of people have the “Government should do it” mentality and lack a sense of responsibility.
I try to recommend NGO involvement to some of my colleagues but only a few deem it necessary. It is often “I don’t have time for such,” “I have better things to care about, why should I take on government’s job,” “I am not responsible for other people. My family is my only responsibility,” “How can I be working in a company and still be part of an NGO?” “If I want to help, there are people in my church I will help,” “Who says I’m not doing good? I am actively involved in religious activities. I don’t need to do community service.”
I repeat again, every man owes the community in which he lives, and our responsibilities to our families, organizations or religious groups do not replace or overrule our responsibilities to our society.
Come to think of it, the same people who are too serious, focusing on their businesses are the same people who nag about environmental problems. They see refuse on the streets and complain; they nag at power outages, criticize government leaders, hate it when people are begging on the streets. They complain about falling educational systems, inadequate health facilities, unclean environment, harsh economic weather. In fact, they complain about everything! They lack a sense of advocacy and community action; neither would they take steps to support the alleviation of poverty, reduction in environmental degradation or good governance. Their empathy for the society is merely pretense because it does not translate into passion and action.
While they are nagging, let those of us who have come to understand that the society needs us work towards achieving a better society. In our own capacities, let us collaborate to identify and solve problems in our communities because we are the change agents. As we make the society a better place, we are making the lives of others, as well as ourselves better.
In the next part of this article, I shall be suggesting ways in which we can contributes to the society and why it is important for us to be change agents.
Meanwhile, what do you think contributes to the apathy of the masses towards community development services? And why did you decide
15 thoughts on “WE ARE CHANGE AGENTS (PT 1)”
You spoke well my sister. Like in my community, many people don’t have the spirit of giving back to there community let say even supporting an ongoing project without being paid! They do nothing for free but rather tying it to there poverty state.
It is only the heart that is motivated by love that can give
Indeed! People need a restructuring of mindset.
Mind reset management is what people need
I am helping the special needs people in terms of creating awareness for inclusive education and people should understand that there is Ability in disability
Great work. Well done Tunde.
hmmmm complains can only drag us backward….lets imbibe positive attitude
Taking up responsibility requires a whole lot of sincerity of purpose. Learning to give back to where we all gain from is a culture that should be imbibed right from the early part of life.
Ako, I think the apathy arises from the perceived and real disappointment they feel and experience from successive governments over time. The social contract people enters with the government has been breached by the later and this is a major problem. Until the government is seen to be responsible and sincere about the contract, it will be very difficult for people to want to contribute to community development. Our society is still at the elementary stage of governance and development. The enabling environment is not only limited to the provision of infrastructures but also building trusts in the people.
That is true Sir. But how can such be cleared from their minds?